Wednesday, July 20, 2011

My Special Investigator

I brought an investigator with me to Church today. She is amazing. I love her, and I hope that she will learn to love the gospel of Jesus Christ.

My investigator is five years old and she is my granddaughter. Her mother is not a member of our church and her dad is not active. For now, they let her come with me. She enjoys coming, and is learning a lot. I am honored for the chance to share the gospel with her.

My goals for my granddaughter are different than they were for my own children, for she is an investigator. I don’t know how many Sundays we will have together before life makes other plans. I know that someday she will choose for herself, so today I do what I can to create spiritual memories for her.

For my own children, my goals were about being quiet during Sacrament Meeting, not being late, looking presentable, and not having to go to the bathroom and get a drink twenty times.

For my granddaughter, I have just one goal. I want her to feel something. I want her to feel safe. I want her to know that church is a happy place to be. I hope that she feels good inside and that she will come to understand that those good feelings come from the Holy Ghost.

I don’t mind if she makes me late. I don’t mind if she does her own hair and chooses her favorite dress, instead of the one I wanted. I don’t mind if she whispers to me during the Sacrament, or if she wants to get a drink or go to the bathroom more than once. I don’t stress if she dances in the aisle or spills the crayons on the floor. I am just glad that she is with me.

I talk to her about Jesus and about the Holy Ghost. I tell her that Heavenly Father loves her and that she is his daughter. I tell her that the Sacrament helps us remember Jesus. I tell her that the things she is learning in primary are true.

She knows a lot for a five year old investigator. She knows about Jesus and about Joseph Smith. She knows about temples. She knows some Articles of Faith. Sometimes she reads scriptures with Grandpa and me. She knows how to pray.

She sings about the doctrines of the restored gospel in amazingly beautiful primary songs. She may forget the lessons, but I think she will remember the songs.

“I know that my Savior loves me.”

“Faith is strengthened, I feel it grow whenever I obey. “

“I lived in Heaven a long time ago, it is true. Lived there and loved there with people I know. So did you.”

“I know my father lives, and loves me too.“

“I love to see the temple. I’m going there someday, to feel the Holy Spirit to listen and to pray.”

“My life is a gift. My life has a plan. My life has a purpose, in heaven it began.”

“I will follow God’s plan for me.”

“I need my Heavenly Father to help me every day. He wants me to be happy and choose the righteous way.”

My own children seldom missed church and they had the advantage of family home evening, family prayer, and seminary. I never thought of them as investigators, but perhaps I should have. They learned the principles of the gospel, but some of them chose a different path.

My granddaughter will choose too. I cannot make this choice for her, even if I want to. The choice belongs to her. I can teach her gospel truths while I have the chance, but knowledge is never enough. Those gospel truths need to find a home in her heart. Truth is obeyed when it is loved.

Today we are planting seeds of testimony. Will I have her long enough for those seeds to take root? Will she learn enough to grow her own testimony? How much will she remember?

It is hard already. She is confused. Why is Jesus important to Grandma and Grandpa, but not to Dad or Mom? Her mom would rather she didn’t come to church, but she allows it. Why doesn’t Mom want her to go to Church? Why won’t Dad come too? How can she follow Jesus and honor her Mother and Father? These are hard questions for a five year old.

I don’t have good answers. I have my testimony, and my love for her. I’m counting on the Holy Ghost to help her find answers. I’m counting on Him to help her make important choices. Will she get the gift of the Holy Ghost when she is eight? Will she listen to Him?

“Oh may I always listen to the Still Small Voice,
And with his light I’ll do what’s right each time I make a choice.”

The Holy Ghost is my best friend. I hope He will be her friend too. And when it really counts, I hope she’ll remember who she is.

“I am a child of god, and He has sent me here.”

Linda Garner


  1. Thank you for this. It was just what I needed. I take my grandchildren to church with me too. I have struggled with how to teach them while I am there, you helped me.

  2. Thanks Christie. Good luck with your grandchildren.